I told him I like him, now what?

Okay gurl...here is a little wisdom for you.... back off! no man likes a woman that is too aggressive. trust me i learned this the hard way. allow a man to be a man! if anything needs to be initated let the man do it. its not your place. and if he has said it twice that he doesnt like you as more than a friend then back off. because pushing to say he likes you like that when he isnt sure will actually make him like you less. if you are friends with him then just be his friend. you dont need to destroy a friendship because you are trying to push him into a relationship with you. He probally really likes you as a person but maybe not as a woman. you have told him more than once now that you like him. you dont have to tell him any more. and you dont have to do anything else. just be his friend. i cant tell you how many mistakes i have made by trying to push a guy i liked into being with me when really he just like me as a person. i was cool he loved talking to me. another thing this whole flirty thing you said he has been doing...you are either misreading the messages or its just the repor of the friendship. most guy-girl friendships are flirtaious. thats just the way we are. the opposite sex naturally flirts but it doesnt mean that the flirts are indications of someone wanting a relationship. im sorry if i am sounding a little mean or forward but reading over this question i saw me in it. and i definetly dont want you to make the same mistakes that i have made. if i can make a difference in someone else's life by telling them someone wisdom i wish i had then i will. i am a very aggressive woman and i didnt have anyone to tell me that aggressiveness can push men away i had to learn on my own. so gurl just take it slow. find someone else to talk to. trust me gurl you may feel like he is the one or you just cant leave this situation alone or turn your feelings off for him...but trust me you can. time heals all wounds. you are young and have a lifetime of happiness ahead. dont get bogged down by one guy bc he said he doesnt like you. if its in god's will he wont have a choice because god will have his way. a wise saying once said. if you love something you will let it go. and if it is truly yours then it will come back to you. let this go sweetheart move on like on someone else. if this guy trully have feelings for you he will realize it in his own time. you may be moving away but true love always finds it way home. if its meant to be then there is nothing you have to do to make it happen. above all pray about it. god is either going to open his eyes are give you the strength to move on. be blessed dear :)